ALL SERVED FAITHFULLY NONE DIED
IN HONOR OF THOSE OF THIS VILLAGE WHO ANSWERED THE CALL OF THEIR COUNTRY IN THE WORLD WAR 1917-1918
A journal of my search for my ancestors and their stories. I started as a name collector and now I am a family historian and preservationist. Join me as I share what I learn.
ALL SERVED FAITHFULLY NONE DIED
IN HONOR OF THOSE OF THIS VILLAGE WHO ANSWERED THE CALL OF THEIR COUNTRY IN THE WORLD WAR 1917-1918
The Irish Famine, Great Hunger, Potato Blight, it goes by many names, but until a week ago, I didn't know much more about it than the overwhelming statistics; one million dead, another million lost to emigration, starving farmers dying at the side of the road.
Reading Paddy's Lament, pictured above, has been eye opening for sure. It is a difficult read, something that I think will stay with me for a long time, but important in understanding Donald's ancestors who were children during the worst years of the famine, but most old enough to remember and to carry their trauma to their new life in America.
Last year, while I was trying to verify the information on the Coughlin headstone at Calvary Cemetery, I discovered the 1884 will of John Coughlin, the elder brother of Winifred, Donald's second great-grandmother. It included the following:
Third: I direct that the sum of one thousand dollars be applied by my Executrices towards my funeral expenses & this item is also to include the expense of a tombstone, Requiem Mass and other masses to be said for the repose of my soul after my death, I most earnestly request that my Executrices will obey my wishes in this respect.
Google told me that one thousand dollars in 1884 would be worth almost thirty thousand today. Both Donald and I thought it was an unusually large amount, but didn't think too deeply about it, not thinking that was an answer we were likely to find. After reading Paddy's Lament, I can actually make an educated guess as to why John Coughlin would direct his sisters to spend that amount.
Before the famine, according to this book, funeral expenses were the one thing that Irish peasants would save money for. Tradition called for a casket, a wake, professional keeners and a horse-drawn hearse, but most important was the casket. As the famine wore on and deaths began to outnumber births those savings would likely have been used to buy food or pay rent. Later, wood for caskets became unavailable at any price. Some families broke up wooden furniture to make caskets, some went without and some even used a casket with a drop bottom that could be used over and over. Many people were buried in mass graves, some even in the homes they and their families died in, with the roof brought down and the whole structure set ablaze with the deceased inside.
John Coughlin was born in Ireland in 1833 and I'm sure would have been very aware of these final indignities going on all around him. Having emigrated to America and done well for himself, he earmarked enough money to ensure that he went to his final rest in a dignified manner.
You never know what you might learn about your ancestors when you delve into the events they lived through, and some of it will be tough, but it is always worth pursuing.
One of the first things I discovered when I began researching Donald's Scalise line was that Donald's great-grandmother gave birth to three babies who died in childhood and infancy. Until a few weeks ago, I only had transcribed information from FamilySearch. Thanks to Reclaim the Records and their unrelenting pursuit of the release of records by New York City, I now have scans of their death certificates for free instead of $45.
Donald's great-grandparents, Giuseppi Scalise and Marie Vecchio, came to New York after they were married, but years apart. They already had at least two children, who came with Marie in 1920 and began again as soon as Marie arrived, starting with Donald's grandmother Marie Theresa or Tessie.
Angelo Scalise, born in 1923, was the third child born in the US, and died at 10 months of bilateral lobar pneumonia. His sister Angelina was born in 1925 and died at the age of three, also from bilateral lobar pneumonia. After two more children, both of whom lived to adulthood, Tomaso was born in 1930 and lived only 17 days. He died of congenital endocarditis. All three death certificates list the same cemetery, Mount Saint Mary Cemetery in Flushing, Queens, as their final resting place. I strongly suspect that they are buried in the same plot as their parents and siblings, with the headstone above.
Sadly, it appears that Giuseppe and Marie may have lost other children before they came to the United States since Beatrice was born in 1908 and her brother, Frank, was born in 1913. Or perhaps Giuseppe came to America more than once?
Among the items on my wish list for this family; see what I can find out about the Scalise home in the 1920s and how it may have contributed to these illnesses (Giuseppi also died of pneumonia in 1936), find records from Italy that may give us information about additional children, find out for sure who is buried in this plot, and see if the family would like these babies' names added to the headstone. I would love to see that happen some day.
Side Note: You know what they say about good intentions. I would love to be doing more blog-able research, but things have been hectic to say the least. Donald is having another surgery, hopefully next week, my mother tested positive for Covid yesterday (she is vaccinated and started a course of Paxlovid immediately) and we are preparing to have her move in with us by the end of next month. I am losing my genealogy office, so I'm documenting the downsizing, moving, storage of my personal archives and if it turns out to be interesting/helpful, I will share it here. In the meantime, I will post when I can.
As part of Heather Wilkinson Rojo's Honor Roll Project, I have transcribed this Roll of Honor in Merrick, NY to make the names visible to search engines so that family researchers can find them.
Howard Matthews, photo enhanced with MyHeritage. |
DJ, our Basenji, avoiding a walk in -9°F wind chills, two years ago. |
I have been keeping up with my goal of doing something each week for genealogy, but none of it has been blog-worthy. At the moment, I am taking a break from organizing my genealogy space in preparation for working on scanning and storing some family photos and papers.
Later this week and next week I will be watching some webinars from the NYG&B and participating in an indexing event as well.
If you want to see what is coming up or currently available at the NYG&B, visit their events page here. There you will find a list of upcoming webinars and events like a scanning day at their offices. On the left of the page you will see some other education opportunities, like the New York Family History School which is currently offering access to presentations from the 2020 New York State Family History Conference through February 21st. There are 24 sessions available for viewing; $59.95 for members, $99.95 for non-members and its even less expensive if you attended the conference in 2020 and want to watch these presentations again.
I hope to have something blog-worthy to share soon, in the meantime stay warm and stay safe!
If I were to sum up my overall genealogy goal for this year, it would be "Just Do Something." After taking such a long and unplanned break, and with so much uncertainty still in our present reality, my biggest goal for the year is to make time to do something genealogy related every week. Even if I can only squeeze in one activity during a busy week, I want to make sure I don't let more than 6 days go by without researching, documenting, transcribing, updating, organizing, scanning or learning something.
This isn't to say that I don't have specific things in mind that I would like to accomplish in 2022, but my approach to this year, at least for the first few months, will be pretty loose and easy.
For the next few months I plan to keep researching Donald's Barry lines and adding to both of our trees in WikiTree, just as I have been the last few months. In addition, I'll be putting together a plan to scan some set of records, photos or negatives in my collection. Those fast-moving fires in Colorado have lit a fire under me as well. Imagine running out to Costco or Home Depot for a quick errand only to be evacuated and never see your home again! Losing everything would be devastating, but nothing would hurt my heart so much as losing all of that family history before it was digitally preserved.
So, that is it, my quick, simple and certainly not overly ambitious goals for the first few months of 2022; just do something.
I made it! My desktop PC was getting slower and slower last week, but my new laptop shipped earlier than expected and arrived on Friday and ...